Even when a child is selected, the difficulties continue. A discrepancy in a name on an Aadhaar (national ID) card becomes a serious obstacle. A document must be corrected. A mother is asked to return next week, and then again. In some cases, admission does not proceed. For families already living with the burden of stigma, every additional visit brings anxiety and the fear that their child may lose an opportunity.
Even after admission, in schools where other families pay Rs 1 lakh to Rs 2 lakh a year (roughly US$1,150 to US$2,300), some families we work with have been asked for Rs 10,000 or Rs 20,000 (roughly US$115 to US$230) in additional payments. For a father who drives an auto-rickshaw or a mother caring for a parent with disabilities, that money can represent months of savings.
Many parents do not know how to challenge such demands or fear the consequences of complaining. Some borrow money; others risk withdrawing their children from school. Imagine a mother who had little opportunity to study herself, watching the same door begin to close on her child, not because of anything the child has done, but because the family carries a history of leprosy.
At APYSA, we help families prepare documents, accompany them through admission procedures, explain their rights and approach the relevant education authorities when problems arise. A school can turn away a frightened parent standing alone. It is much harder to turn away a parent who arrives with an organisation keeping a record.
Stigma has learned to hide behind paperwork, so we have learned to follow the paperwork. We urge schools to process eligible applications fairly, provide written reasons for adverse decisions, and comply with the law on fees. Education authorities must make lottery and allotment results transparent, so that every family can see why their child was or was not selected. They must also investigate complaints promptly and make grievance procedures accessible to families who may be afraid to speak up.
No child's future should depend on whether a frightened parent has the knowledge, money or courage to challenge a school.